Dating Older Women
It does not matter how old you are, you can have fun dating older women. Your friends may laugh at you, but really, they are all just jealous of you. We all know that older women have certain advantages to younger girls:
- More money
- More experience
- Less complicated
- They do not care what their friends think
- Higher sex drive
As a young man, having a relationship with an older, more experienced woman can have advantages over one with a younger, inexperienced girl. The average age gap in a relationship is 3.5 years, but it can work out just fine with much bigger age gaps if you both work at it. Even if the relationship does not last forever, it can still be a lot of fun when you are dating older women.
I have already mentioned the advantages that you can have when you are dating older women. It can be great to have a proper conversation with someone who has more experience and knowledge of the world. Often women that are your own age who are more concerned with vacuous topics like the love life of celebrities or spending the weekend drinking to excess.
You probably do not need me to tell you how good the sex can be with an older woman. They have spent years finding out exactly what they like and will probably have picked up a few tricks that you will really enjoy. Sex with an experienced older woman is a lot better than with an inexperienced young woman who does not have the same level of carnal knowledge.
Sex is not the only part of the relationship, and older women have other good qualities too. Not only do they have more money to spend on you, but also they already know themselves and life. They do not feel the need to discuss every aspect of your relationship with their friends or ask you if you think they need to shave their legs.
There can also be a few downsides to dating older women. Many of them already have children, which could be a problem if you just want a relationship and not a new family. Even if this does not bother you, it can take a while and a lot of effort to build a relationship with the children. More importantly, the kids will always come first to their mom, so do not try to come between them.
One of the potential problems of the experience that makes older women so attractive is their relationship history. Even though they can be just as single as a younger woman might, there could be ex-boyfriends and husbands lurking in the background. The last thing you want on a night out is an encounter with a jealous ex-partner.
One of the other disadvantages with the older women is that they are less physically attractive than younger women are. Unfortunately, as we get older we all put on a few lbs and various bits start to sag. Some men prefer the look of older women anyway, but even young women with seemingly perfect bodies still have issues with their self-confidence.
When your friends find out you are dating an older woman, you might be the target of some jokes. Just remember that they are only jealous and probably wish they had an older woman of their own.
What to do on a Date
When you start dating older women, you will learn that they are just as happy to do much the same stuff as younger women do. Some might not like to go out and drink heavily on a weekend, but that does not mean that you will not go out for a drink with her, but you might both drink a little less. However, your head will thank you for that in the morning when you do not have a hangover.
Dating older women can be great fun, both as a short-term fling or it can make for a solid long-term relationship. As with all relationships, you will need to work at it, but you can make it work if you both want it to. Just take your time and enjoy it for what it is.